Looking back does nothing but discourage you and at times it can make you feel sad, maybe not for yourself but for other people who don’t seem to move on in life. Moving on is part of life. Changes help us to grow in so many ways. For me it allowed me to be able to focus on the Lord. It allowed me to walk in my anointing and become more of the woman that God wanted me to be. It allowed me to see the truth and stop believing lies that someone else was telling me. It opened my eyes to see what was really going on in a relationship and who that person really was. I am thankful that 4 months after the end of that relationship, God freed me totally of it and from the feelings I had for that person. God said that person was toxic and had issues I just couldn’t help with. No matter how much I prayed or longed to see healing in that person’s life. Sometimes others are not into being healed, because being healed would mean having to live without drama, all the benefits it is giving them in this life. Some of their addictions to money, drinking, drugs, sex, and porn, mean more to them, then those who love and care about them. ( If you are ever blamed for their addictions, know this… It’s not your fault, It’s not you, it has nothing to do with you… It is their SIN! ) Something they personally will answer for to God one day… for the addiction, for the pain and suffering they caused in others and in any part they played in leading others in the wrong way and path of sin.
It has been said that “Hindsight is 20/20” meaning it makes everything clear…
God’s Word had a lot to say about that
and God’s Word is always true and is the final word on all things.
As a dog returneth to his vomit, so a fool returneth to his folly.
Where there is no vision, the people perish: but he that keepeth the law, happy is he.
And Jesus said unto him, No man, having put his hand to the plough, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God.
Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before,
Today, I challenge you to not look back and wish for anything you had in the past (or maybe it is a toxic relationship you are in today) Let it go and walk away! Because what God has for you is much more precious and fulfilling for your life and the lives of those you love and care for…